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Seven-year-old Thu (pictured below) lives in a small rural village in Bac Kan province in northern Vietnam. She lives with her parents and her younger sister.

Thu was born with cerebral palsy and is paralysed on the right side of her body. Completely dependent on the help of her parents, she spent most of her early childhood lying on a bed in a dark corner of the house. She cannot talk but understands people and can respond to simple questions with a few words, which her parents understand and interpret.

“We know that she often felt really sad and wanted to meet and play with other people, but she couldn`t because we were not there to help her out,” says Thu`s mother, Huong.

Thu wanted to attend school but was unable to go because she couldn`t write and had nobody to assist her. She also had no opportunities to play with other children.

After becoming aware of her situation, ChildFund Vietnam provided Thu with a wheelchair to help with her mobility. Now it`s easier for her parents to take her out and she can be more involved in her family and community.

“She seems to be happier now as I can take her out to play with children in the neighbourhood more often,” says Huong. “At meals, she can sit more comfortably and eat with the whole family.”

Thu particularly enjoys visiting a nearby playground. “I like the chair,” she says. “I can play with friends.”

Access to services for children with disability is considered in the planning and construction of all ChildFund Vietnam-supported schools, health clinics and water and sanitation facilities. At schools, ramps are incorporated into the design to encourage children with disability to attend. Inclusive education is also promoted through training for teachers and school managers to raise their awareness on disability.

“Children with disability are especially vulnerable to a range of risks,” says ChildFund Australia CEO Nigel Spence. “We want to ensure they can participate fully in the programs and projects we support, and in the broader community. We value the participation of children with disability as capable individuals who can make an active and meaningful contribution to their communities.”

Like Thu, nine-year-old Tuan also felt excluded when he would see his friends out playing. “Sometimes I really wanted to go out to play with my friends but I felt reluctant because they had to help me to walk,” he says. “So I told them I did not want to go out that day.”

Now his two wheelchairs, one at home and one at school, have not only given him more independence but more opportunity to play with his friends. Full of smiles, he says: “I now have my wheelchairs to play with my friends, go to school and go to the toilet on my own.”

Our visit to meet our sponsored children, Hoai, Binh and their families in Vietnam was part of a bigger trip, partly to escape the stifling summer heat of Western Australia, but also to show our two boys, Max, 7, and Leo, 4, that life in other parts of the world is very different, and that people in other countries face hardships that we don’t.

We spent a month in Vietnam in total, travelling from North to South, but meeting Hoai and Binh was definitely the highlight.

We’ve sponsored Hoai and Binh for about three years now (and we also sponsor Octaviana in Timor Leste). We actively chose to sponsor girls, and older girls too (Hoai and Binh are both 15) as we believe the older children have the opportunity to give back to their communes, and with support may be able to go on and do great things which will further help their communities.

One thing that struck me about north Vietnam seemed to be how resilient people were, how they just appeared to get on with it and work exceptionally hard to make a life. The fact that there are vegetable gardens everywhere is testimony to just how hard people work there. Life in the commune is heavily reliant on manual labour.

Our visit to meet Hoai and Binh involved a whole day of driving from Hanoi to get to the town nearest to their village. The following morning we left with our two ChildFund representatives and drove through beautiful windy mountains up to the girl’s village. The scenery was absolutely amazing.

We met the girls and their families in the local commune building, and spent about an hour chatting with them and hearing about their lives, and what things they wanted to do in the future when they leave school.

They are both doing well at school, and their parents were obviously very, very proud of their daughters. The girls seem confident and ambitious for the future, wanting to be a doctor and a teacher. I’m so pleased that they are making the most of the education offered.

Hoai and Binh were a bit shy to start with, but very polite young ladies. After us asking them lots of questions, they started asking us some in return. Once they found out I used to be a high school teacher they asked about how our classes worked, and if students are ever naughty, which got everyone laughing.

We got to visit the kindergarten (Leo liked that because he got to have a good run around in the playground) and the high school the girls attend, meeting the principal and English teacher.

The girls’ families gave us some wonderful gifts, including hand stitched traditional wedding shirts. We tried them on, much to everyone’s delight, as mine only just fit but Simon’s barely made it across his shoulders!