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On 17 July 1998 a 7.0 magnitude earthquake, which triggered a tsunami, struck the north coast region of Papua New Guinea (PNG). The tsunami caused utter destruction for the people of Malol in East Sepik.

Along a 45km coastal stretch, the tsunami destroyed villages and crops, displaced thousands of people and left a death toll of an estimated 2,200 people in its wake. Media reports suggest children in particular bore the brunt of the disaster, sustaining the most injuries and lives lost.

Thanks to the quick thinking of my mother, my family and I survived. When my mother was a small girl, my grandfather would tell stories of the earthquakes and volcanic events he experienced as a plantation worker in Rabaul. These stories became the tool that equipped my mother with her quick response to the impending danger.

Today I realise that if it wasn`t for my grandfather`s stories, my family and I would not be alive. There were no warning systems in place, no disaster committees to help us, only instinct.

I was just 10 years old when the tsunami hit. I was confused and lost by the experience, but I now understand how important it is to have communities equipped with disaster risk knowledge and preparation for reacting to such events. I now know that preparation is what saves lives and reduces the destruction of properties in the face of disasters.

Disaster risk reduction (DRR) is vital in rural communities now, particularly as PNG is experiencing the effects of climate change. Poverty and a lack of education and knowledge make people and communities more susceptible to disaster because of their lifestyle and living environment.

Our main priority is equipping communities with the relevant skills to take ownership of the disaster management cycle €“ because it is the local people who will be affected and therefore who should have ownership of their own disaster planning.

As a young Papua New Guinean, I can see that DRR is a cross-cutting issue in PNG. Having the right skills and knowledge equips my fellow Papua New Guineans with the ability to identify any potential hazard within their community, district, province, and across the nation.

Working with ChildFund PNG across Rigo district in Central province, I am assisting children and their communities in developing disaster contingency plans, identifying daily hazards and training community members to have a voice and be involved in disaster preparedness.

By preparing for the worst I know children from the communities we work with will no longer suffer the greatest when disaster strikes.

When we were leaving City Mission Haus Ruth – a refuge in Port Moresby where up to 30 women and children live whilst they await protective police action – Rose came up to me and said she was really disappointed because her story was important and she wanted to tell it. So we arranged that we would come back in a few days.

When we came back, Rose and I talked about who would see her video. I told her it is possible that everyone in Papua New Guinea and Australia may see it. To this she replied: “Good, that`s what I want.” I could tell that she had spent a lot of time thinking through the purpose of telling her story.

Rose then told her story to the camera. She told of how her husband attacked her with a knife €“ how she ran for her life, too fearful to return home for two nights. Because she escaped under such terrifying circumstances, she had left her three-month-old baby at home. On returning, she found her baby girl had been assaulted. The horror on her face still haunts me. I know as a loving parent that there is no greater fear than someone hurting your baby.

We took a break from filming; I think we were all grieving quietly and collectively. We were all shaking from the enormity of Rose putting it into words and saying it out loud. She was incredible.

Rose and I then sat together outside and just talked. She told me how everyone she knew had told her that it was best to stay with this man because otherwise he would kill her and maybe other members of her family. But Rose refused. She said to me: “He can kill me but he is not hurting my baby again.” Rose and I talked about the power of love, how it is stronger than the most violent threat.

Rose is a devoted mother and completely besotted by her little baby girl. We also talked about the first six months of getting to know your baby, how we both marvelled at having given birth to such perfect little beings. I think of Rose often.

As we left, Rose said to me that she was so relieved to have told her story, for others to hear and act upon. She said that being believed and being heard has given her the strength to continue to fight for justice. I promised to keep telling her story.