When ChildFund supporter Mandy Eagle met her sponsored children in Kenya, there were tears of joy and gratitude.
“I didn’t know what to expect when I was over there,” the
NSW resident says, “but I cried a lot.
“I cried mainly because of the love. When you get there you
realise they’ve got nothing apart from their family. They’re lucky to have
clothes on their back and they walk kilometres and kilometres in the dust to go
to school.”
It had been 11 years since Mandy first started supporting
ChildFund when she decided to meet Jane, Naisoi and Seleyian, three of the four
children she sponsored through the organisation.
Mandy had been writing to the girls for many years, but visiting them was a chance for her to develop a greater understanding of who they were, their lives, and their hopes and dreams. For Mandy, it was a “life-enhancing and enriching” experience.
A warm welcome
She took away many “precious moments” from her sponsor visit, but there is one in particular that she will never forget: seven-year-old Jane’s joy and gratitude after discovering her sponsor had brought her dolls from Australia.
“Jane ran directly over to me and wrapped her arms around me and gave me the biggest and most loving hug I’ve ever had,” Mandy says.
“This still brings tears to my eyes. It was in such contrast to how complacent our kids in the West get when given such simple gifts.”
Jane and her family lived in a tiny home in Nairobi’s slums. The family had put in a lot of effort to make Mandy feel welcome, cleaning the place before she arrived and decorating the walls with lace tablecloth.
“They had this little corrugated room where six people slept, ate, did everything,” Mandy says. “The trouble they went to, to make the room as lovely, clean and presentable as possible was beautiful.”
Every child sponsor’s journey is unique. Sponsors build meaningful and personal relationships through visiting and writing letters to their sponsored child. They’ve witnessed the growth and change in the life of the child over the years, and learned life-changing lessons themselves.
Here’s what seven child sponsors had to say about their journey, and the time they spent in our child sponsorship program.
Sponsors who have built meaningful relationships with their child through letters and visits
For some supporters, the most meaningful part of the journey is corresponding with their sponsored child and their family. Supporters who write letters to their sponsored child learn more about them and find the sponsorship experience to be much more fulfilling.
“The friendship I’ve developed with my sponsored child is completely unique…”
ChildFund Ambassador and actress Danielle Cormack had been a child sponsor for 13 years before she made the journey to Uganda to meet Akullu, who she started sponsoring in 2003. For Danielle the visit was a culmination of “anxiety, excitement and anticipation” that had built up over 13 years through letters.
“I’ve seen her grow up through her letters,” she said of her sponsorship experience. “The friendship I’ve developed with my sponsored child is completely unique. She’s been part of my life for many years now and over that time has shared with me the positive impact of sponsorship, not only on her life but for everyone around her.”
The visit to Uganda allowed Danielle to see first-hand the impact of her sponsorship, and cemented the friendship she and Akullu had built.
“Being a long-term sponsor and being able to build that relationship with the children has allowed me to follow Simon and Aber’s personal journeys…”
Geoffrey Fuller has sponsored children in Uganda for over 25 years. “You get back a lot more than you give,” he says of his years as a child sponsor.
In 2016, Geoffrey travelled to Uganda to meet 15 year old Aber, who he had sponsored since 2006. It wasn’t his first time as a child sponsor. He had sponsored Simon in 1994, and began sponsoring Aber when Simon left the program at age 24.
“Being a long-term sponsor and being able to build that relationship with the children has allowed me to follow Simon and Aber’s personal journeys…”
Like Danielle, Geoffrey followed Simon and Aber’s progress through letters and built a personal relationship with his sponsored children and their families.
“This is very special,” he says of his sponsorship experience.
It doesn’t take long to write a letter. Sponsors who take the time out of their busy week to sit down, put pen to paper and write a few things about themselves and their life to their sponsored child receive the most value out of their sponsorship. Over time sponsors develop a personal relationship with their sponsored child, as would be the case with any friendship nurtured through regular correspondence.
Sponsors who have witnessed the impact of child sponsorship
Many supporters come away from their sponsorship experience with a very real understanding of the difference their contribution has made. These sponsors witnessed the positive and measurable change sponsorship had on a child and their community.
“I am totally overwhelmed with humility and yet so happy that he has become such a good-hearted man.”
Bronwyn Barter sponsored Parashuram in 1993. At the time he was nine years of age.
“Through letters I was able to follow his journey,” Bronwyn says. The pair corresponded for 12 years until Parashuram left the program in 2005 at the age of 21.
“I was heartbroken to lose him after he left the program, but I understood that’s how it was.”
A decade later, Parashuram had become a senior government official in India, and dedicated a leadership program to his former sponsor.
“I am totally overwhelmed with humility and yet so happy that he has become such a good-hearted man,” Bronwyn says.
“It is programs such as these that provide children with the opportunity to realise their true potential in life.”
When Tay visited his sponsored child Yumna in 2019, he’d already been a part of ChildFund’s child sponsorship program for 15 years.
“If it wasn’t for me personally visiting Yumna, I would have never had an appreciation of the great program that has been introduced to develop and support children such as Yumna,” he says.
While Tay was visiting Yumna in Indonesia, he learned how his sponsorship had been supporting her growth and development. The program had ensured she received an education, and Tay was excited to continue following Yumna’s journey.
“It is programs such as these that provide children with the opportunity to realise their true potential in life,” Tay says.
You never know who your sponsored child will become. It only takes one person, and one decision, to change the life of a child. These sponsors provided a child with the opportunity to become who they wanted to be, and the results left them feeling proud to have contributed to changing a young person’s life.
Sponsors who have learned life-changing lessons from child sponsorship
Sponsors develop a greater understanding of poverty through writing letters to and visiting their sponsored child. These sponsors have learned life-changing lessons about gratitude, and live more meaningfully as a result of their sponsorship experience.
“I’m going home with a much better understanding of the world, of the people of the world. I’m very affirmed in the similarities between us all.”
ChildFund Ambassador and chef Julie Goodwin was excited, but nervous to meet Hamad, the boy she and her husband sponsored through ChildFund Australia.
Julie spent a day in Hamad’s village, and was invited to cook and eat a traditional meal with his family. She observed that women in Uganda prepare food and cook kneeling on the ground, out of respect for the food that’s about to be eaten.
Despite all the differences between life in Uganda and Australia, the visit taught Julie that people all around the world want the same things out of life and for their children.
“I’m going home with a much better understanding of the world, of the people of the world. I’m very affirmed in the similarities between us all,” she says.
“It was an amazing and enriching experience, we came away thinking our lives were so materialistic.”
Dave Meney and his wife started sponsoring Francis, a three-year-old boy from Kenya, in 1993. In 2004, the family visited Francis’ village, on what they called a “life-defining trip”.
“Things changed completely in terms of our commitment to the sponsorship after the trip,” Dave says. “While it was an amazing and enriching experience, we came away thinking our lives were so materialistic.”
The Meneys lost contact with Francis after he left the program, but reconnected with him later in 2009. Now Francis works for Dave remotely, as a virtual assistant, and the Meneys have learned to live more meaningfully and and with gratitude.
“It was so eye-opening, while also exciting and emotional.”
Sue Mandelik sponsored Thom in 1999, on behalf of her daughter Jacinta. She wanted to sponsor a child the same age as her daughter, so the pair could grow up together. Sue also wanted Jacinta to appreciate life in Australia and learn about the experiences of children in developing countries.
After Sue and Jacinta visited Thom in Vietnam, Sue says Jacinta learned valuable lessons. “It was so eye-opening, while also exciting and emotional,” Sue says “Jacinta wanted to send all of her belongings, such as clothes and toys, over to Thom. It was really sweet.”
Over the years the family saw Thom mature into an educated and happy young woman, as well as the transformation of her entire village. The lessons learned from the sponsorship experience left Sue and Jacinta feeling more grateful for the simple things in their life.
What will you learn on your journey?
Child sponsorship not only benefits a sponsored child and their community, it can also be a life-changing experience for a sponsor.
Start your child sponsorship journey here.